Simple pleasures on a drizzly day

I live in a lovely community in a glorious county but I know that the loveliness and the glory are there because other people have volunteered and planted things, picked litter and made sure beauty is accessible to all and for all that effort I am deeply grateful

Today I had the opportunity to help enrich our environment when I joined with our Trefoil Guild in planting snowdrops in the grounds of our County House.  Each of us had dug  few bulbs from our gardens at home and on a drizzly March day we joined together to plant them "in the green".

There's a real satisfaction in knowing that next year things will look even better than this year and, because snowdrops spread very readily in this area, things will continue to get even better.

So a simple pleasure for this not-very-nice day in March was knowing that we have started a new swathe of beauty which should last for many years to come.

Simple pleasures on a sunny day

The last two days have been sunny and wonderful here in Caistor.  Yesterday I went up to church on my trundle truck and I think I worshipped almost as much on the journey as I did in church.

I passed this lovely bank on the way.  Then at church there was a lovely display of jonquils.  I felt especially lucky because they were more or less at eye level for me as I rode my scooter

And there will soon be glorious flowers around the old trap in the churchyard.Simple pleasures, available without charge to anyone who cares to look

News about Jack

Jack modelling a t shirt sent from across the pond

Long time readers of this blog will know that Jack is my gardener and handyman but most of all he is my friend.  He has written on this blog and he has been written about.  If you click on the label "Jack" on my sidebar you'll find posts about him and several posts by him.  

For quite a while he has been experiencing more and more pain in his knees and it was decided well over a year ago that he needed a replacement joint.  I've visited him at home a few times but he hasn't been here since January 2017.

Well, last Thursday he had his surgery at last.  I haven't seen him yet but we have exchanged texts and he should be home in the next couple of days.  He'll probably read this post so

GET WELL SOON JACK

Update Sunday evening.  Jack is now home but still in some pain so I won't be visiting for a while.  He'll probably be able to read the blog now.

Simple pleasures on mundane days

It would be impossible for every day to be exciting and the mundane days come around with great frequency.  However, mundane does not mean unpleasant, for surely it is on mundane days that simple pleasures are really needed.

Most of yesterday was pretty mundane.  I took a simple funeral in the morning for a very old lady who had outlived all her friends and most of her family. Just her son and his partner and four staff members from her residential home came.  However, I take just as much care for those funerals (which present their own challenges) as I do for the "standing room only" type and once I've done a funeral I spend the rest of the day very quietly.

So I knitted - such  simple pleasure.  I'm not good at knitting.  Usually I knit scarves or hats and not much more but I wanted to have a go at circular knitting so I obtained circular needles, a pattern for a jumper,and some wool.  I tried making stitch markers out of odd bits of wool but found that proper stitch markers would be easier to use so I bought those too. This will not be a cheap garment!  Yesterday I was able to get quite a bit done.  

I wasn't feeling very interested in cooking so I looked for something very simple.  My eyes fell on a tin of mushy peas - not a sophisticated choice!  I used to go to a Bonfire Night party many years ago where mushy peas with mint sauce was among the delights on offer.  So I opened a tin, add mint sauce and thoroughly enjoyed my ridiculous meal.  Comfort food or what!!!

While I was knitting and while I was eating I was remembering.  I thought about the old lady and the good long life she had enjoyed.  I thought about the friends with whom I had shared those 5th November parties all those years ago.  I remembered and I day dreamed about so much, things which I would never have thought about on an exciting day but the memories were good and the day dreams even better.

So three simple pleasures for mundane days - knitting, comfort food and day dreaming.  

Simple pleasures on cold days

I wrote recently about my lovely book Simple Pleasures:little things that make life worth living and today has been a day for appreciating a few simple pleasures for cold days.

1. I've been enjoying the view from my window.  The starlings have been squabbling, passing children have been waving and I'm warm and happy indoors.  Bliss.

2. Comfort food has been on the menu today.  Casserole for lunch and there will be soup for supper.  Simple homely food to warm both body and soul.

3. The joy of making things.  I made my soup and casserole but I also knitted and I sewed.  Creativity is always a pleasure but not regretting being confined indoors is hugely helped by doing something wonderful with the time.  

Hi Mandy!

It was one of my favourite days of the month today - I went to Mandy's aka Dunholme Crafter.  I came home with four cards having had a lovely morning chatting and doing some papercraft.  

So, here you are

With a little bit of luck Mandy has found this post with the greatest of ease as, just for once, I was able to show my appreciation for the things she teaches me by showing her a couple of things on her computer.

Hi Mandy

Some of my best friends are books

I no longer hoard books.  I used to - big time.  When I left school I trained as a librarian so in my work I handled as many books as anyone could want.  Then I changed course and after the odd experiment in the job market I became a parson some years later, a profession famed for bookishness.  That was when hoarding really took hold but I used my skills of book classification and cataloguing and had well ordered book shelves. All was well.  Vicarages have studies and mine was definitely book-lined.

But then came retirement and most of the books just had to go.  Unless I wanted every room in my bungalow to be dominated by volumes on theology, horticulture, cookery, needle arts and anything else which had ever taken my fancy, I had to rationalise.  

One big help in this was my Kindle.  As far as possible I no longer buy fiction in anything other than digital form.  I now enjoy many titles as audiobooks to be listened to as I do other things.  T'interweb became my main source of information on many subjects and my book buying was cut back.

 I still buy some books.  Three or four years ago I bought this one, "Small pleasures: little things that make life worth living"  published by The National Trust.  It consists of essays written by a variety of people.  Here one can read Adam Hart-Davis on the satisfaction of working with wood, Prue Leith on the pleasure of a hot bath, Roy Hattersley on grooming a dog, and a huge variety of other authors on litter picking, reading aloud, playing the piano or whatever else gives pleasure to life.

The real joy of this book is not what is in it but what isn't in it.  It has spurred me on to look at the simple things which give me pleasure.   It's a long time since I wrote about the little sources of joy I find in my everyday life.

Watch this space

Time Runs

It's a really good year for milestone birthdays and anniversaries.  I'm wholeheartedly in favour of a special celebration every ten years.  I did a "Project 60" in the run up to my last "special birthday" and, although I've still got nearly four years before the first digit of my age changes again, I've started to think about Project 70.

But this post isn't supposed to be about me.  It's about my wonderful friends who have Golden Wedding Anniversaries or Very Special Birthdays this year.  Just before I was ill I went to a wonderful ninetieth birthday party for the mother of an old school friend.  She had a whale of a time.  I didn't give her a birthday present as I knew she would be inundated with flowers but instead I told her that some time before she is 91 she will get an Unbirthday Present.  She thought it was a wonderful idea!

I made the same promise to my friend Doreen who was eighty last month.  Sadly I wasn't feeling well enough to go to her birthday bash but sometime before she's 81 she will receive a bouquet on a day when she's least expecting it.  She loves the fact that she will have flowers at an odd time of the year and I have given her the gift of anticipation.

When I was a child my family celebrated each of my birthdays with a party,  cake and a lot of special fuss but these days milestone birthdays seem to come round as quickly as each birthday did before I was a teenager.  I want to finish this post with a poem by Henry Twells, a Victorian vicar.  He knew all about how time varies her speed.

Time's Paces

When as a child I laughed and wept, 

Time Crept 

 When as a youth I waxed more bold, 

Time Strolled 

 When I became a full-grown man 

Time Ran 

 When older still I daily grew, 

Time Flew 

 Soon I shall find, in passing on, 

Time Gone 

 O Christ, wilt thou have saved me then? 

 Amen.