About the salads.
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| Mangosteen |
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| Star fruit |
I also had a star fruit. I've had then before but not often bought them. I thought they would look pretty on the plate. They did.
About the salads.
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| Mangosteen |
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| Star fruit |
I also had a star fruit. I've had then before but not often bought them. I thought they would look pretty on the plate. They did.
I go down a lot of rabbit holes on t'interweb. Most are useless but I found one yesterday that I'd like to share with you.
Take Five to Stop Fraud is (obviously) about protecting ourselves from scams. They list over twenty different scams and give helpful advice on protecting ourselves. They include three written-for-them Whodunnits, short stories inviting the reader to solve the crime by watching out for Red Flags.
I've also been listening to some podcasts on BBC Sounds called "Scam Secrets". Some scams are funny (well, not for the victim, obviously): try The Great Knitted Cardigan Scam! All are serious and I'm getting better informed.
Scams aren't funny and it's all too easy to fall for them. Time spent informing myself is time well spent.
I haven't much planned for June, really just a few meals out. I'm writing that down so I can look back at the end of the month and probably say, "Well, that didn't go as planned!"
And that's the sort of diary I like. It means that, if a lovely day is forecast, I can go to a nature reserve, or the seaside, or a country house with its gardens or whatever I like. Or I can sit in my garden and listen to the birds.
And if the weather doesn't make those happen I can undertake a project indoors.
An empty diary month? Nearly! A lazy month? Probably not!
(Just after I wrote that I read Kirsten's post for Saturday. She has been inspired by Rustic Pumpkin walking to raise money for a charity and she (Kirsten) has increased her step count. My average in May was just 2188. I want it to be 2500 in June.)
My "salad days" have started. Not many 74 year old ladies can say that! My salads this week have included asparagus, banana, beetroot, blueberry, broad beans, carrot, cornichons, cucumber, haricot beans, lettuce, mangosteen, olives, peas, peppers, pineapple, potatoes, radishes, raspberries, red cabbage, red onions, seeds, rice, strawberry, sultanas, sweetcorn, tomatoes. I make that twenty two different ingredients. And haven't started with fruit salads!
A lot of fabric has found its way out of the house to be used by someone else.
I've had several meals out with friends. We are all definitely Ladies Wot Lunch. It's my best way of socialising. Sometimes it's just coffee but lunches save me cooking. Hurrah! I've also cooked a couple of meals for friends at home.
I treated myself to a made-to-measure riser/recliner chair. It was an arm-and-a-leg job financially as well as design wise but I spend a lot of time in my chair.
Jack has been twice to sort out my garden. He's a busy chap!
I've done a new fix for my energy. I don't know how I've done it but my new direct debit (£70) is £15 less than last year (£85). Which was £19 less than the previous year £104). Don't spit at your computer - it would make a mess. All three years are from the same supplier. And I don't understand it but I'm happy! Although this is a "fix", it is linked to the price cap charge, (just lower) so I expect it to rise during the year. And I've had a £113 refund on last year's payments.
We had our annual Open Churches Weekend, although the church I was involved with is actually open every day. Our jigsaw project was very successful.
I've done some doggy day care.
On the other hand, blogger is still doing strange things with my reading list so sorry, I haven't commented as much as usual. Sorry.
It has been a little warm these last few days!
G, Holly's regular staff, went to London on Monday to fetch her daughter's dog so Holly Dog summoned the relief staff - me! On Sunday Holly and G visited me and poor Holly was panting so badly that I gave her frozen gel packs, (often needed by my knees), for her to lie on. G and I just collapsed like sweaty puddles.
Anyway, I went to Holly's house and we spent the day avoiding the sun. Unfortunately she likes to sit as close as possible which doesn’t make keeping cool very easy. Fortunately the house is largely stone-built with not-too-large windows so the heat isn't as uncomfortable as it would be at home.
This is not a good weekend for her to be rendered silent. Well, it never is, but this is a very heavy weekend church-wise, and E is relied on heavily although she too is a "volunteer vicar". This weekend, as I said yesterday, is our Open Churches Festival and E is very involved. Quite apart from that and the usual Sunday worship, there is the annual service in the memorial woodland in one of the parishes.
We had a quick discussion on the possibilities. E feels well enough to be around and rotas of welcomers have been arranged for all the churches. I would lead the "normal" services for Sunday and lay ministers would be roped in for the memorial but she would attend as much as she felt able.
So today Plan B swung into action. It's good to be part of a team.
It's West Lindsey Open Churches Festival this weekend. Churches and chapels of many denominations are open and it's an opportunity many people take to go on a church crawl.
To be honest, most of the open churches are Church of England because, although almost every village has an Anglican church, it's just the larger villages which have other buildings.
I shall try to visit a few churches but I will be most involved at St Peter's, Normanby le Wold. Here's what the brochure says.
What the brochure doesn't tell you is that the "cakes and savouries" are produced by a celebrity chef who lives in the village and they are truly scrummy. Not that I am going there just for the nosh, you understand!
as I don't know whether anyone can read it!
There is a problem on Blogger at the moment. (I know, there's often a problem on Blogger.) This time it's the blog feed which isn't happening. I am being notified of very few blog posts and I'm not even notified of my own posts! I don't think many people are being notified of my posts as I have less than ten per cent of my usual number of page views.
Other people are complaining that they can't post comments on the blogs they read.
So, please bear with the bloggers on Blogger. We are doing our best.
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| The pattern used by many of our laides. |
Both groups started around 2018 when many churches were asking for knitted poppies to form displays to mark the centenary of the end of The Great War. Now both groups knit for charities.
Saturday's lunch was organised so that the other group could hand over their garments for our leader to distribute. We send stuff to Women's refuge, the Salvation Army, premature baby units, care homes and the Emergency Services.
Emergency Services? What would they need with our knitting? Well. several ladies knit trauma teddies. These small bears are kept in police cars, rescue vehicles and ambulances to give to children at accident scenes as a small comfort when really unpleasant things are happening around them.
One lady told the story of her son and grandson. They were involved in an accident and her son was rendered unconscious. Her three year old grandson had no physical injuries but he must have been terrified. The first policeman on the scene gave him a teddy. We all went a bit quiet when we heard this.
I think various knitting needles may be clicking even quicker with even more determination from now on.
April saw the end of the hibernaculum project for this year. It was a great idea and I shall do something very similar this year. And as the hibernaculum time ended (Easter Sunday) my Hare Days began. The theme for this period is "Hare today, done tomorrow" and it is proving to be a much more active time than the relaxation of hibernaculum days. Nothing much to show you yet as bags packed for the charity shop, bags for recycling and (sadly) bags destined for landfill, don't make for pretty pictures.
For the first half of the month I was covering for a priest friend who went on an eleven week cruise. I enjoyed doing my bit to help, which was quite demanding as it included Holy Week and Easter. Another friend (who is to retire shortly) is rather ill so Plan B (aka me!) is again stepping in. One day the congregations will say I am too decrepit to take services, but at the moment they seem happy to welcome me and I am happy to go. I conducted funerals for a friend and for a cousin. It's good to be able to do that one last thing for them by offering comfort to their loved ones.
Only four days dog sitting this month but they were four very nice days. Holly and I get on very well with each other.
Sue from Suffolk mentioned a poem about April in her post today and it sparked the memory of a poem I learnt when I was at school. Enjoy!
Home-Thoughts,
from Abroad
Oh, to be in England
Now that
April's there,
And whoever
wakes in England
Sees, some
morning, unaware,
That the lowest
boughs and the brushwood sheaf
Round the
elm-tree bole are in tiny leaf,
While the
chaffinch sings on the orchard bough
In England—now!
And after
April, when May follows,
And the
whitethroat builds, and all the swallows!
Hark, where my
blossomed pear-tree in the hedge
Leans to the
field and scatters on the clover
Blossoms and
dewdrops—at the bent spray's edge—
That's the wise
thrush; he sings each song twice over,
Lest you should
think he never could recapture
The first fine
careless rapture!
And though the
fields look rough with hoary dew,
All will be gay
when noontide wakes anew
The buttercups,
the little children's dower
—Far brighter
than this gaudy melon-flower!
Robert Browning
That was around 2012 (I think) and the centre is still well used today. There is a paid manager but most of the work is done by volunteers. There's a charity shop in Caistor which raises the necessary funding and the coffee shop does a very nice line in tea, coffee and cakes.
The centre is really important to our community. The library is a lovely place to go and books are supplied by the county library service but the library is staffed by volunteers. Volunteers do most of the work in the cafe too and I can vouch for the deliciousness of the cakes!
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| "My" tree |
Anyway, I've now been close up and have looked at the bark. (It would have been dangerous for me to walk across the rather soggy grass in January.) And now I've looked at the tree, the leaves and the bark and have decided that it is, indeed, a beech tree, Fagus Sylvatica f. purpurea.
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| The bark of "my" tree |
It's a copper beech (that's the purpurea bit), one of my favourite trees. The leaves are currently only half formed but they are so lovely.
In Celtic mythology, Fagus was the god of beech trees. It was thought to have medicinal properties – beech leaves were used to relieve swellings, and boiling the leaves could make a poultice. I think I will just enjoy my tree for itself.
I decided to go with the suggestions of a fifty day period, ending at Pentecost which this year is Sunday 24th May. In the Anglican liturgical calendar (and many more), all this time is Eastertide. It's fifty days and that seems like a good period to work with.
But now we go down a rabbit hole or rather into a hare's form. Hares are becoming more common around here and that is good news. They don't like land which has been over-treated with pesticides or fertilisers, so an increase in their numbers means that the land is being treated gently and with more respect.
My motto for the period will be "Hare today, done tomorrow". I want to treat my time with respect. I've got plans for these fifty days (or the forty which are left). I'm hoping that some time during June to September we will get a very hot period when I won't want to do much but this time should be comfortable and conducive to action.
I hope you like the Hare Brained Hare above. It's by Hannah Dale who lives not far from here. She's created a "wilding" project which you can read about here. Please visit her website.
Easter is here now so I have taken away the old and displayed my little eggs. I've had these for quite a few years. Indeed, they were the first non-Christmassy themed decorations I had for this tree.
For Christians, eggs represent the sealed tomb of Jesus from which new life springs. In the Middle Ages eggs were forbidden during Lent so Easter eggs (of the hen variety!) would have been very welcome after the austerity of the previous weeks.
I treated myself to a small(ish) chocolate egg on Easter Sunday but I made sure I had real eggs too for breakfast.
A huge chunk of the month (seventeen nights) was spent dog sitting. Holly and I enjoyed a few cuddles but we neither of us enjoyed the flood. However, the response by friends and tradespeople was wonderful. Community is great!
I've been helping make up jigsaws ready for West Lindsey Open Churches in May when we are hoping to have a great display and sale. It's been an excellent social activity for quite a few people.
I've lead worship on four Sundays. Yesterday we couldn't use the church building so we decamped to the village hall. There is a loo being installed in the church so it was a very worthwhile move!
I conducted two funerals. One lady was 99 and the other was 101. Each was a celebration of a life well lived.
I've been out for quite a few lunches or tea and cake meet ups. These are a great way for me to meet up with friends as we live in various villages so it make sense to meet in Brigg when we go shopping rather than make special journeys to each others villages.
I've completed two scarves which will be sent to the Salvation Army for the residents of its hostel. I've again been commissioned as an elf for Santa as he needs three scarves for children.
I've enjoyed my hibernaculum. But it's been lovely to see signs of spring as well.
It was a marvellous weaving of new music, traditional liturgy. Her morse on her cope was fashioned from the buckle from her nursing belt but she sat on the ancient Chair of St Augustine.
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| Celebrations at St Paul's 2024 |
Archbishop Sarah, I feel proud and humble. May God bless you.
I read "Worried about winter? 10 ways to thrive – from socialising to Sad lamps to celebrating the new year in April" back in November 2024 but didn't do much about it. I've added a link so you can find this article in The Guardian. It's about a book written by Dr Stephanie Fitzgerald called The Gifts of Winter. And I enjoyed the book.
"Winter is coming, but don't panic!" was another article in The Guardian, this time in November 2025. The main source for this one was Kari Leibowitz who wrote "How to winter". Not as helpful to me as The Gifts of Winter but I still enjoyed it.
One widely recommended book in, "Wintering: the power of rest and retreat in difficult times" by Katherine May. It didn't do much for me though.
I've included links to the articles and to the books on Amazon UK. Actually, I listened to the books rather than reading them - my knitting has come on a treat!
I wonder how the hibernaculum is?
It's still lovely, thank you for asking. And it will continue to Easter Sunday as I have previously decided. I know most people will be feeling heartily sick of winter and are happy to welcome spring. I'm happy to welcome spring, but winter has been very different for me this year.
Don't get me wrong: it is lovely to see spring. It's just that it was also lovely to see winter revealing its treasures too. Back in the autumn I realised that if I spent winter wishing for spring, I could be wishing around a third of my life away. Instead I would try and see winter as different and yet still good.
I watched clouds, raindrops, snow and also bright sunny days and very windy ones. I loved getting out when it was sunny and was happy to remind myself on foggy days that I had a perfect excuse for knitting and listening to a book. I decorated my sitting room with (LED) candles but I fetched snowdrops from the garden and daffodils from the supermarket and gloried in them.
I cooked soups and casseroles, fish pies and warming tagines. I drank lots of coffee and fruit and herbal teas and had salads only occasionally. I welcomed friends and was happy to visit or meet them in a local hostelry but I also relished my solitude.
Some days I felt low but I could observe myself non-judgementally and have an occasional duvet day, confident that things would be better the next day.
Quite honestly, the main change was in my attitude and, maybe, my beliefs. Winter is what it is. I am who I am. We rubbed along very well.
Last time he came I took two packs from the freezer the day before so they could defrost overnight. And could I find it next morning? No way. I searched in all likely (and quite a few unlikely) places but it had disappeared. I thought it might have got caught up in rubbish for the bin. I took two more packs from the freezer and we had those.
I said a few weeks ago that my plan was to sort the dining room before Easter. Well there are are still two weeks to go but I have to report that I have been an excellent maulifuff. (Maulifuff is an old Scottish word for a woman devoid of energy, who would happily do nothing for hours on end.) Very little has changed in the dining room. I hope this is no surprise to my fellow maulifuffs.
However, a somewhat drastic situation meant that I decided to collect all stray paperwork from all over the house. I'm sure you will have guessed what comes next. I'd put the four slices of bacon, carefully wrapped in greaseproof paper, among a heap of papers.
I think that makes me a gold star maulifuff !
Holly lives about seven miles from my own home, so, when I am here I go home every couple of days to use my wet room and sort whatever needs sorting. Just after I stepped out of the shower this morning G rang from South Africa (a Mermaid had rung her) to tell me that the header tank in her house had leaked and the house was flooded. I dashed back and found water running down the walls and stairs and all the electrics had failed. Oops.
But the response was amazing. The other two Monday Mermaids were there in minutes with buckets mops and towels. We got a plumber within the hour and an electrician within two. Soon the plumbing was repaired and the electricity supply restored for most of the house. We had even sorted emergency accommodation for Holly Dog if needed! (If the electricity hadn''t been restored I would not have been able to stay here.)
But I can stay. The hallway is still soaking wet but I can bypass that. The central heating won't come on but I have a couple of electric heaters. People have lent a dehumidifier and a carper shampooer to suck up the water.
But no way could this be called a holiday.

Debbie insists we must breathe!
A Tuneless Choir director came to our Women's Institute today to talk about her singers. They all come along saying they can't sing but somehow she has formed them into a choir. Their motto is "Sing like no-one is listening". I've added a link to their web site.
Debbie used to teach music in schools but since she retired she's been inspiring adults to have a go. This morning we sang "I have a dream" and, while we won't be singing at The Albert Hall any time soon, we had great fun. There were a few percussion instruments available and one of our members played her kazoo to add to the general cacophony.
And it was good to hear that their linked charity is Mind, the mental health charity, because choral singing is great for mental health.
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| A friend and I hard at work |
Last month we had a jigsaw afternoon in a local village hall and about twenty people joined together to complete various puzzles. It was a real success as quite a few people who live alone (and feel lonely) came along and had three hours puzzling and chatting. So often older people (me included) can feel a little useless, but everyone knew they had made a valued contribution to a fundraiser for a much-loved village church as well as having a lovely afternoon being fed tea and cakes.
People have also taken jigsaws home to complete. I'm dog sitting this week and there's a puzzle which has been left half-done on the dining room table as well as the one I brought with me.
An unusually shaped jigsaw
I was very doubtful about having a jigsaw display as part of the festival as it seemed a very laborious way of raising a little money but I have to admit that it is very successful as a social activity.
The jigsaws will be displayed in the church on the boards we have done them on and most will be available for sale.
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| There was a glorious hanging basket outside. |
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| And a knitted afternoon tea inside! |
March is, for me, St Patrick's month, as his day is 17th March, so I have gone for a Irish theme.
That might look like some sort of chocolate cake to you, but Jack had said he didn't want a cake. Instead I made a batch of ducks and put birthday candles in them. He was quite happy with that.
I also knitted him a new hat so he can proclaim himself to be a supporter of Lincoln City. And that book he's holding is the history of Lincoln City Football Club. They are doing rather well this season.
Happy Birthday, Jack.
(He's 83. I was probably not supposed to tell you that. Tee hee.)