I agree with Alice. I disapprove of the White Queen's rule. Jam days are part of healthy living. It must come sometime to "jam today".
Maybe I just need to realise that there is jam every day: I need to recognise it. Maybe I do - my simple pleasures are jam. I've never quite worked out what mindfulness is - is it just appreciating the jam?
This month I have quite a few jam days planned. I've got a special rail journey booked and I think I've got a photography course booked. I say I think I've got it booked because it's 19th May but unless there are a few more bookings it will be cancelled as not viable. If the weather is good I've got plans to make my first visit this year to a few gardens. Even if the weather is horrid I've got at least one indoor trip. I'm going card-making and I've got some sewing lined up.
Here's hoping that you too have jam in May.