When I was a child I loved New Year. My parents were
definitely party animals, and unless they hosted a party on New Year's Eve they
invariably went to one.
If they were the hosts I was ushered off to bed before the guests arrived but
all the ladies used to come up to visit me. Some of them kept coming back
during the evening with delicious plates of party food. I was also a keen
reader so with ladies making a fuss of me and bringing goodies up to me whilst
I read one of my Christmas books, I was one happy bunny.
If they were going out I would be sent to my grandparents
for a couple of days. They lived in a big old-fashioned farmhouse on the
Lincolnshire Wolds. It kept out the worst of the weather but it was damp
and had very little in the way of insulation. It was not unknown for
there to be frost on the counterpane and it was rarely known for there not to
be thick frost on the windows on those cold January mornings. But what
the house lacked in warmth didn't matter - it is the warmth of my grandmother's
heart that I remember most.
There was a small ritual on New Year's Eve. My grandfather would give me
a shilling and the three of us would go out into the yard and each of us would
hide our shillings. The next morning we would go out and "find"
our money - the idea being that if you brought money into the house on New
Year's Day money would continue to come into the house throughout the year.
However, I would have watched where grandad hid his shilling and, with
grandma egging me on, I would retrieve it for myself.
My grandparents were both wonderful.

Lovely memories... happy new year
ReplyDeleteI was lucky. Happy New Year!
DeleteYour ne.w year memories are lovely
ReplyDeleteThank you. Happy 2026 to you!
DeleteWhat lovely memories.
ReplyDeleteMy family used to have parties and I remember my Uncle Bob (tall, dark and handsome) being in demand for first footings. My husband's family introduced me to the custom of placing a bright new penny under a piece of coal, one for each person in the household, outside on the step overnight. Each person then leans out in the morning and reveals their penny and brings it inside the house, without stepping outside, to ensure good luck for the coming year. We still do it each year.
Happy New Year.
That sounds like either Scotland or Northern England - am I right?
DeleteWhat lovely memories of New Year. Catriona
ReplyDeleteI've had some wonderful New Years and now I have happy memories.
DeleteLovely childhood memories - have a Happy New Year !
ReplyDeleteI hope you do too!
Delete