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01 January 2026

New Year in my childhood

 

When I was a child I loved New Year.  My parents were definitely party animals, and unless they hosted a party on New Year's Eve they invariably went to one.

If they were the hosts I was ushered off to bed before the guests arrived but all the ladies used to come up to visit me.  Some of them kept coming back during the evening with delicious plates of party food.  I was also a keen reader so with ladies making a fuss of me and bringing goodies up to me whilst I read one of my Christmas books, I was one happy bunny.

If they were going out I would be sent to my grandparents for a couple of days.  They lived in a big old-fashioned farmhouse on the Lincolnshire Wolds.  It kept out the worst of the weather but it was damp and had very little in the way of insulation.  It was not unknown for there to be frost on the counterpane and it was rarely known for there not to be thick frost on the windows on those cold January mornings.  But what the house lacked in warmth didn't matter - it is the warmth of my grandmother's heart that I remember most. 

There was a small ritual on New Year's Eve.  My grandfather would give me a shilling and the three of us would go out into the yard and each of us would hide our shillings.  The next morning we would go out and "find" our money - the idea being that if you brought money into the house on New Year's Day money would continue to come into the house throughout the year.  However, I would have watched where grandad hid his shilling and, with grandma egging me on, I would  retrieve it for myself.

My grandparents were both wonderful.


 

10 comments:

  1. Lovely memories... happy new year

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  2. Your ne.w year memories are lovely

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  3. What lovely memories.
    My family used to have parties and I remember my Uncle Bob (tall, dark and handsome) being in demand for first footings. My husband's family introduced me to the custom of placing a bright new penny under a piece of coal, one for each person in the household, outside on the step overnight. Each person then leans out in the morning and reveals their penny and brings it inside the house, without stepping outside, to ensure good luck for the coming year. We still do it each year.
    Happy New Year.

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    1. That sounds like either Scotland or Northern England - am I right?

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  4. What lovely memories of New Year. Catriona

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    1. I've had some wonderful New Years and now I have happy memories.

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  5. Lovely childhood memories - have a Happy New Year !

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