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29 October 2025

Companions

I'm going out for lunch today.  It's one of several meals out associated with my birthday, which was last week.

Eating out is one of the things which has changed hugely over my lifetime.  My parents used to go out for dinner occasionally.  I was taken to restaurants for lunch, often on Bank Holidays, as an encouragement for good table manners.  Eating out for most people was a very definite treat, if it happened at all.  Indeed one of my friends remembers eating out as an ordeal because everyone was so tense on the rare occasions it happened.

Looking at my diary this month (OK a special month for me) I've been out for coffee and a "schmackerel" three times,  afternoon tea at a tea-room with a couple of cousins, breakfast twice, brunch once and I have two lunches out still to go.  And then there was an afternoon tea to celebrate a 95th birthday, two harvest suppers, and lunch at a cousin's home.

I suspect I eat out more frequently than most people  because I live alone and most of my friends live at least ten miles away, but the proliferation of tea rooms, restaurants and dining areas in pubs suggests I am not alone.  

I love the word "companion" which has at its root the idea of people with whom one eats bread.  Not only do I love the word, I love my companions too.  

11 comments:

  1. I have always loved that word too, and the concept of "breaking bread together"

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  2. Enjoy your lunch, it's great to get out and chat.

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    1. I think we both enjoyed and valued today's meet-up.

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  3. It’s lovely to eat out with friends and chat and catch up about what’s happening in our lives. Enjoy the meals still to come. Catriona

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  4. I am an associate of the Sister's of Loretto and one of the ways we stay connected across this rather large country is by using the phrase "Companions on the journey."

    God bless.

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  5. Sounds like you have plenty of occasions to enjoy a meal out. I rarely eat out, these days, preferring to bring the food home to eat. But, that works out well for me. :)

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    1. It's lovely to meet up with friends either at home or out..

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  6. When we first moved to this small market town in the 1980s there were three places one could go for coffee; a dubiously pretentious and stuffy old-fashioned hotel, a rather scruffy pub that was decidedly dodgy after dark, and a most peculiar tea-room that served cinnamon toast and proper tea with vintage mis-matched china and cutlery long before that became trendy. How things have changed!

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