A Favourite Poem

If you can start the day without caffeine

~~If you can get going without pep pills...

~~If you can always be cheerful, ignoring aches and pains...

~~If you can resist complaining and boring people with your troubles...

~~If you can eat the same food everyday and be grateful for it...

~~If you can understand when your loved ones are too busy to give you any time...

~~If you can overlook it when those you love take it out on you when, through no fault of yours, something goes wrong...

~~If you can take criticism and blame without resentment...

~~If you can ignore a friend's limited education and never correct them...

~~If you can resist treating a rich friend better than a poor friend...

~~If you can face the world without lies and deceit...

~~If you can conquer tension without medical help...

~~If you can relax without liquor...

~~If you can sleep without the aid of drugs...

~~If you can say honestly that deep in your heart you have no prejudice against creed, colour, religion or politics...

then, my friend, you are almost as good as your dog

That was August that was

It's been a gentle month.  Some of the time it was too hot to do anything and sometimes I wasn't too bothered about doing anything so I didn't.  These are a few of the things I did.

Worst first.  Annie-The-Home-Enhancer went away on her holidays so she wasn't here for four weeks.  I welcomed her back with very open arms!

I went swimming three times. Early in the month I couldn't walk much but I've improved as the month has gone on.

I studied some Shakespeare on-line with the WI.

I'm taking a service tomorrow but that's the only Sunday worship I will have led.  I took a Home Communion to a housebound lady and arranged for others to join us which she greatly appreciated.  I also conducted a funeral for which I was requested.  Funerals like that are always an honour.  

I had a couple of lunches out with friends.  And I went to the Bomber Command Memorial with a women's group.  

I did nine nights dog sitting.

I went to two birthday parties: one was a barbecue and the other afternoon tea.

Maybe you would like to know what happened next.

 

I spent a week recovering from the journey before I was fit enough for surgery.  My left patella (knee cap) was totally shattered and was completely removed.  I was frightened that I would never walk properly again.

My right leg had been badly ripped in the accident and gangrene set in so the affected flesh was sloughed away and I was scheduled for a skin graft a week later.  Unfortunately I had brought an unwanted gift home with me - malaria!  I had to wait until that had gone before I was able to have the second session of surgery which involved collecting skin from my thigh and grafting it to my shin to cover the sloughed area.  

Then it was bed rest.  Total bed rest for a further month.  Eventually the plaster casts were removed and I was allowed to go to the hydrotherapy pool.  I was so excited.  A week or so of water supported exercise and other physiotherapy and I was allowed to walk for the first time in two months!  I was so excited.  I was shuffling along supported by two nurses and my Mother arrived to visit me.  She burst into tears at the sight of me.

I stayed in hospital for a while longer, learning to walk with sticks.  I had nearly three months hospitalisation all told.  Then home and working hard to build up my strength.  

For the next thirty five years I was able to walk and run fairly normally.  But as time passed my legs complained and I had to use first walking sticks, then mobility scooter and walker.  My left knee joint has been replaced.  I have an adapted bathroom and ramped access to my home.

However I am profoundly grateful for what I can do, thanks to the skill of doctors, nurses, physiotherapists and so many more.

28th August 1974

28th August 1974 was a life changing day for me.  On that day I was in a motor cycle crash and then dragged along the road by my motor bike resulting in a broken malleolus, shattered patella and badly ripped leg.  (I could see my bones.)  And I was a VSO (Voluntary Service Overseas) in a small town in Nigeria.

I was taken to the local hospital and patched up enough to be sent home to the UK.  My legs and feet were enclosed in plaster from my toes right to the top of my thighs so I was pretty helpless.  

A week later my repatriation began.

First Shell-BP lent a small plane for the day so I was flown across Nigeria.  I was met at Lagos airport by two representatives from the British High Commission who were there to make sure I had my passport.  If I hadn't they would have produced a new one for me.

Then a hair raising journey across Lagos in a very ramshackle ambulance.  I had to wait several hours for the flight to London so I was taken to rest in an hotel.

Back to the airport and I was carried up the airport steps like a precious piece of china.  The flight crew, the cabin crew and anyone else who happened to be around helped.  Nine seats had been removed from the aircraft and a bed installed for me.  And the High Commision had arranged for a nurse to accompany me.

It was a night flight to London and we landed on a dreary September day.  At Gatwick it was policemen and ambulance men who carried me off the plane.  My mother was waiting with a representative from VSO and off we went to London, King's Cross.  My rail journey would take another post but let's just say I had a reserved compartment and a Red Cross nurse who came north with me and Mother.  

At Doncaster station I had to be taken on goods lifts under the railway to another ambulance and the final leg of my journey to our local hospital.  The journey had taken one and a half days.

And then the serious work of recovery began.  

Using my time

 When I come and look after Holly, I regard it as a sort of holiday.  It's actually more restful than most holidays when I tend to want to see and do things.  When I come here I like to "be" and to be creative.  There's a brilliant craft room here where I can make cards, and there's a porch where I can look at the view and click my knitting needles. 

This time I've been making a blanket for a little boy of my acquaintance.  (I mentioned it in an earlier post.)  I wanted to get it finished as T's granny died recently and I think he needs all the comfort he can get.  I was determined to get it finished for him.  And I have.   But Holly seems to have different ideas about who it is for.  

Mermaids

 

The Monday Mermaids were well down on numbers this week.  One is floating around on a canal somewhere, and one (Holly's mum) has gone to Turkey.  Just three of us.  So one got her phone out and two of us posed.  And we sent this picture to both of them labelled, "Wish you were here."  Neither of them seemed to regret being wherever they were so we had a chatty time without them.  

We are among the most regular users of the pool and have been going for quite a long time now.  Holly's Mum has mentioned to the owner that I have trouble getting into the building and he has now offered to improve access.  How kind is that!

Gluts

 

I'm not complaining!  Figs for breakfast - yum!  And this time I took a picture not only of the figs and cream cheese which I since devoured, but also of a few spares which will disappear over the next couple of days.  I promise you that there are still loads on the tree.

Apparently, it is a good year for figs.  I have no fig tree so I don't know but I do know that everyone who is friendly with Holly Dog's human is fed up with making fig jam and fig chutney.  

What I have is tromboncino.  Like all courgettes it doesn't know what to stop.  Fortunately my neighbour doesn't have a plant but he does have rhubarb which again has no idea that enough is enough so we did a little swap.  I'm picking, cooking, pureeing and freezing tomatoes as fast as I can.

It seems to be an excellent year for apples, pears and plums but not very good for runner beans.  What's done really well in your garden this year?  Or not?  And has anyone tried dehydrating figs?

Poem for everyman

 

POEM FOR EVERYMAN

 

I will present you

parts

of

my

self

slowly.

If you are patient and. tender

I will open drawers that mostly stay closed

and bring out places and people and things

sounds and. smells, loves and frustrations, hopes and sadnesses,

bits and pieces of three decades of life

that have been grabbed off in chunks

and found lying in my hands.

They have eaten their way into my memory

carved their way into my

heart

altogether — you or I will never see them —they are me.

If you regard them lightly

deny that they are important

or worse, judge them,

I will quietly, slowly

begin to wrap them up,

in small pieces of velvet,

like worn silver and gold jewellery,

tuck them away

in a small wooden chest of drawers

 

 

 

and close.

 

 

John Wood, from “How do you feel?”

I was given this poem when I had three decades of life to look back on.  I now have well over seven.

 

Dog sitting again

 Holly and I are sending quite a lot of time together this month.  This time her usual human has gone to Turkey to spend a few days with her brother so Holly has allowed me to come.

Don't tell Holly but this time there is an extra incentive - the figs are ripe.  I love fresh figs!  Figs with cream cheese.  Just quartered and eaten with cream cheese.  Nothing as fancy as this picture but I was so keen to eat them that I didn't take a photo.  

Holly is happy too.  Her human asked me to get some cooked chicken to liven up Holly's meals but I roasted a chicken thigh from the freezer.  Holly says I can come again.

The nights are drawing in

 and so are the mornings.   For many years my usual rising time has been around 4am and, although I am trying to push it later, it is still dark when I rise.  It's dark before I go to bed too.  There's no getting away from the fact that winter is coming.  I don't like winter.  I can't get out so easily, the dark makes me feel sluggish.  

So, I try every year to make winter a little happier.  I've got a SAD lamp and that will go on each morning once we pass the Autumn equinox on 22nd September.  I'm harvesting and prepping food from my garden to make lovely soups to be savoured.  I've got ideas for things to make and do.  I'm finding books for those dreary months.  

And I mustn't call them dreary months!  Instead of thinking "I can't go out because it's raining" I could be thinking, "That rain looks like a good reason to have hot chocolate".  Instead of bemoaning the lack of visits from friends I could be rejoicing that I can get on with some of my messier hobbies.  

Great ideas.  Now, where will I find the energy to put them into practice?

International Bomber Command Centre 2

The Bomber Command Memorial Centre has made a real effort to highlight the role of women in World War 2.  There are ten silhouettes made of Corten A weathering steel.  At first I thought it was just rusty iron but it's a steel alloy which forms a crust which looks like rust but is stable and doesn't leave a messy mark on your finger when you run your hand over it.  

One of the women commemorated was Stella Charnaud, better known as Lady Reading.  After her husband died in 1935 she became very  involved in public work and in 1938 she responded to the Home Secretary's request to form a women's organisation in case of war.  By 1942 the Women's Voluntary Service had a million members.  They were key in organising the evacuation of children from the cities to the countryside and providing help to anyone displaced because of the war.  Nella Last (Housewife, 49) was a member.     

Bomber County

During WW2 Lincolnshire became known as Bomber County as so many bombing sorties were flown from RAF stations in the county.  About twenty years ago the (then) Lord Lieutenant felt that there ought to be a memorial in Lincolnshire to the courage of the RAF personnel who served here.  The International Bomber Command Centre in Lincoln is his lasting legacy.  

I've wanted to visit the memorial since it opened in 2017 but never got around to it but yesterday was the day.  I went with a women's group and we had a tour of the site.  I've no doubt that I'll be writing more about the centre but I wanted to share a few photos.  Some are mine, some from other sources where I would not be able to do the subject justice.  

The memorial stands on a hillside overlooking the city of Lincoln.  Lincoln’s Cathedral provided a landmark for crews both leaving and returning from missions and, for those who failed to return, the Cathedral was often their last image of home.  I wanted to show a view of the city and of some of the memorial poppies.  

This photograph isn't mine but was taken from the air.  The aircraft outlined is a Lancaster bomber, used extensively from the county's airfield's during the war.  The red bits are ceramic poppies.

The dominant feature of the memorial is the spire.  It is surrounded by walls engraved with the names of the almost 58,000 men and women who lost their lives serving in or supporting Bomber Command.  

The Tree

 I watch other people's trees with interest as they go through the year and photograph a special specimen each month.  But this tree isn't like that.

This is a tree which lights up.  I bought it one Christmas but left it out when I packed away the other decorations.  I don't often switch on the lights but I do like to decorate it a little.  It has the usual sort of thing at Christmas, small eggs at Easter and I have recently bought these bees.  They made me smile.  

I'd like to make a few things to hang on my tree but I have no idea what.  They need to be 2-4cm high and not weigh much.  Anybody got any ideas?

Birthday parties

 It's years since I went to a birthday party but two came along almost at once.

On Saturday I went to a barbecue to celebrate a friend's seventieth birthday and next Sunday another friend is hosting an afternoon tea to celebrate her seventy fifth.  S has recently moved back from France and she's using her three-quarter century to celebrate with the friends who couldn't go to France when she was seventy. 

When I was a child it seemed to take forever for a year to pass and I could proudly say, "I'm seven" instead of "I'm six".  These days a decade seems to take about as long as a year took in my childhood.  I think it's great to have a special celebration every ten years on the day when we once again get a zero as the final digit of our age.

For the years seem to pass so quickly now.  Each day is savoured even though it flashes by.  

Annual birthday parties would come around far too often!

Desiderata

 Go placidly amidst the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labours and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul. With all its shams, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful.

Strive to be happy.

Max Ehrman, 1927.

Plan B is (temporarily) Plan A

 

I know this will sound weird to most people, but I found conducting funerals to be one of the most satisfying things I did as a vicar.  Making an awful day a less less awful and giving comfort to someone at a very dark time is a privilege.

I don't take many funerals these days.  I find leading a coffin over ancient churchyards (which are always very uneven underfoot) to be difficult.  I'm not the regular pastor for any village these days and if the regular person is available s/he will take the funeral.  I am truly Plan B.

But sometimes I am asked for by name.  I can only take a funeral with the permission of the regular vicar (or rural dean) but it would be very unusual for anyone to say no - they've got more than enough to do anyway!  For the second time this year that has happened and I feel privileged that I am someone's Plan A.

J died very suddenly a couple of weeks ago and the coroner has been involved so the funeral can't take place for another couple of weeks.  As you know I am retired so I have more time to give care than most clergy would have.  I've visited her husband twice and had several phone calls and will have a lot more contact before (and after) the funeral.  After all, this is personal and professional contact.  

And J is in my prayers.  Her husband is comforted a little by that.  

Bliss!

 

Annie-The-Home-Enhancer came to my home yesterday, her first visit for four weeks.  I went home for a while to make sure she was OK.  Today when I go home (my dog sitting break ends today) the house will be clean and tidy and WONDERFUL!

Annie set up her business several years ago and my cousin's daughter was one of her first clients.  She lives about eight miles from me so I didn't ask her to look after me initially but I was given a cleaning session as a birthday present.  Life-changing!

When she came I asked her if I could be a regular client and she agreed.  Once a fortnight she cleans and together we set the world to rights.  I sit and we chat.  My main job is to make sure there's plenty of coffee.

I was the first person to call her my home enhancer and she loved that so much she has it on her business cards.  She is as much a professional as I am.  If you want someone to conduct worship I'm OK.  But no-one in their right mind would hire me to sort their house.  Annie truly enhances my home and my life.  

Weather

 Nearly four years ago I started to knit a temperature scarf and carried on knitting one stripe a day for two years.  I planned it carefully,   I checked temperatures  for the previous two years and bought thirty different colours, one for each degree Celsius up to 30C, a temperature rarely seen here.  There would be so few days over thirty that it wouldn't matter.

Then on 19th July 2022 had its hottest day ever with 40C being recorded here in Lincolnshire.  I had to buy more colours.  I recorded that single day in white.   

Since that day we have had several days over 30C and yesterday, once again, we hit 31C.  Lower temperatures (still hot but below 30C) are predicted over the next few days.

When I look through my wonderful rose coloured spectacles, I remember summer holidays as a child being hot but never so hot that we had to stay indoors.  How will today's children look back on summer in the 2020's??

Holly Dog writes . . .

My regular staff has gone away for a few days so I have graciously allowed Mary to stay in my house.  She can make herself useful.  I shall make sure of that.

My standards are high.  I expect breakfast at 8am and dinner at 5pm.  I have a super blue bowl with my name on it so she can't pinch it.  I always inspect the meal but often decline breakfast.  I sometimes decline dinner too so my personal chef (Mary) adds extra tempting morsels to persuade me to eat.  Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't.  I like to keep her on her toes.

I am very kind to her at night.  I always get on to her bed to warm it for her.  If she really was appreciative she would let me stay there but she is very selfish so I go on a ledge next to her.  That way I can remind to get up and open the door so I can have a midnight stroll.  

If she comes during the winter she brings a heated throw which I rather like.  She lounges on the sofa with it so I lounge on her.  She hasn't brought it this time so I will just sit on her. 

If she's having a snack I make sure she shares it.  Can't have her putting on weight.  Occasionally I fetch a toy to amuse her and give her some exercise.  I am, as you can see, a very considerate dog and make staff welfare a high priority.  

So tired!

 

I went swimming yesterday. I haven't been for five weeks because of health issues or having other appointments but I was determined to go.

I really enjoy my swim but there are steep steps to get into the pool we hire, so, if my legs are unhappy, I can't swim.  It's a really low cost pool which we hire and quite nice once we get in.  (The other four Monday Mermaids are all fitter than me!)

But yesterday I got there and I swam for about half an hour.  I enjoyed it and felt really good when I got out.  I came home and then the fatigue set in.  I paid for that half hour swimming by three hours in bed, most of it asleep.  

But for all that, I'm so glad I went.  

Jack writes

 Hi, everyone.  

It's about time I did another post.  First, thank you all so much for your kind comments when I rang that bell.  

The Vicar's tomatoes are better than mine.

Now for a more important matter.  The Vicar.  As of late she's been reprimanding me for my use of words in the wrong places.  Maybe I'm not learning all the big words she comes out with.  I feel so inferior so I've learnt a few big words (by that I mean more than four letters) so I can at least fire back on the odd occasion when I can get a word in.  Although we talk every morning for 25-45 minutes, I do well to string five sentences together, and I might get some of the words in the wrong places, e.g. I said I was ravishing when she offered me a Christmas dinner.  She's never let me forget it should be ravenous.  On other occasion I've got things wrong and it always gives her great pleasure to berate me when I'm wrong.  She also gets great pleasure when she wakes me up with her phone call.  That doesn't happen very often.

This year all the stuff I've planted in her garden has done a lot better than the stuff I planted in mine and she always goes out of her way to remind me of that fact.

Saying all that, I must let you know that I would miss our chats in the morning and I'm sure the vicar would too.  

I know it goes against the grain for me to be nice but I've got to admit she's always there for anyone who asks for her help, me included.  I lost my wife and as long as I keep breathing I always be grateful for what she did for me

I hope you all keep well and, if my post has brought a smile to your face,  it will make me happy too.  Laughter is better than pills so once again thanks for all your comments not just to me but to my friend, the vicar.

God bless.

Jack

Sometimes all you can do is smile

move on with your day

hold back the tears

and pretend you're OK.

Bread and wine

Be gentle, when you touch bread,

Let it not be uncared for, unwanted.

So often bread is taken for granted.

There is so much beauty in bread,

Beauty of sun and soil,

Beauty of patient toil.

Winds and rain have caressed it,

Christ often blessed it;

Be gentle when you touch bread.

 

Be loving when you drink wine,

So freely received and joyfully shared

in the spirit of him who cared;

Warm as a flowing river,

Shining as clear as the sun,

Deep as the soil

Of human toil,

The winds and air caressed it,

Christ often blessed it,

Be loving when you drink wine.

(author unknown)

Lidl

I went to Lidl yesterday and got all this loveliness  for the princely sum of £1.50!  All of it is in great condition.

The beetroot has now been boiled and peeled along with a few more from the garden.  The tomatoes (plus some from my garden) have been in the air fryer so I can make puree ready for winter soups.  The broccoli went into the Instapot with more broccoli which I had in the freezer and will also become soup.  The potatoes will probably be saved for those times when I want a quick meal and baked potato would hit the spot.  The lettuces and peppers are in the salad drawer although the peppers might get roasted also for eating in salad.  The pears, oranges and single peach were all in the fruit bowl but the peach has "disappeared"!  

There's little danger that I will starve.

Learning

 

Once a month I go back to Primary School!  No, not liberally, but a primary school teacher does a monthly drawing session on the WI Learning Hub.  And I think my results are the sort of thing her usual pupils would produce.  I'm quite happy with that.  Children's drawings often make me smile!  There are lots of other sessions on the hub for people with varying degrees of artistic ability but this is just fun.  

This week I am also doing a Shakespeare Summer School on Hamlet on the learning hub and next week we move on to Measure for Measure.  Just an hour a day.  Next week there is also a hand embroidery summer school which I will be joining.  All these sessions will be recorded so if I'm busy at the time the live session is streamed, I can watch later.  I've done sessions on using my iPhone, budgetting, decluttering, travel, and much, much more.  

Other than the summer schools, most courses are free for WI members.  

For the oldies (including me!) (Definitely me!)

Those of us who were kids in the 40's, 50's, 60's, probably shouldn't have survived.

Me - ready for anything!

Our cots were covered with bright coloured lead-based paint, the slats were apparently too far apart, and there were no bumper pads.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets, and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets. Not to mention the risks we took hitchhiking.

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.

We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle. Horrors!

We sampled cake batter with raw eggs in it, and survived.

We ate cakes, bread and butter, ice cream, and drank pop with sugar in it, but we were not overweight because we were always outside playing.

We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then rode down the hill, only to find out we had forgotten the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the street lights came on.

No one was able to reach us all day. No mobile phones. Unthinkable!

We did not have Playstations, Nintendo 64, X-Boxes, no video games at all, no 99 TV channels,  personal computers, or Internet chat rooms. We had friends! We went outside and found them.

We played cricket and football and rounders, and sometimes the ball would really hurt.

We fell out of trees, got cut, and broke bones and teeth, and there were no lawsuits from these accidents. They were accidents. No one was to blame but us. Remember accidents?

We had fights and punched each other and got black and blue and learned to get over it.

We made up games with sticks and tennis balls and ate worms, and although we were told it would happen, we did not poke out very many eyes, nor did the worms live inside us forever.

We rode bikes or walked to a friend's home and knocked on the door.

Not everyone was picked for the school football or netball team. Those who weren't had to learn to deal with disappointment.

Some pupils weren't as bright as others but tests were not adjusted for any reason.

Our actions were our own. Consequences were expected.

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke a law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law. Imagine that!

This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers and problem solvers and inventors, ever. The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.

We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned how to deal with it all.

And you're one of them! Congratulations.

(I've had this on my computer for years and have no idea of the source.)

Lily

Memorial lanterns

 Lily was a woman who lived in one of the villages where I was Rector.  She had very unusual features and she told me her mother had been Japanese.  She had few memories of her mother and had been brought up by a stepmother.  

One evening Lily and I were with other friends around a fireside and stories began to be told.  And Lily told us something of her own story.

Her mother's family was originally from Hiroshima but they moved to Tokyo during the war.  In August 1945 they received news of a devastating attack on their home city.

As soon as they could they went back to try and find other family members but with no success.  They went back to Tokyo to mourn their dead.  What they did not know was that they had themselves been contaminated.

Lily's father was British and he met her mother a few years later.  They married and soon Lily was born.  Her parents were so happy.

But before Lily was two, her mother died.  

On this day, I pray for all civilians who are caught up in conflicts they do not understand, and those who still suffer as a result of war.  

Holidays

Sandcastle building

The essentials were packed.  I had strange swimsuits of shirred elasticated fabric.  They seemed to attract sand and became very scratchy.  That was better than the knitted garments inflicted on some children.  I loved to go to the sea to swim or paddle.  We would collect shells on the beach and search for treasures in rock pools.  

But buckets and spades were also needed.  Castle building was taken quite seriously and besides, those buckets were useful for keeping a small fish for the afternoon.  

Until I was about eight we would stay at bed and breakfast places, preferably farmhouses.  Some places would offer an evening meal or we had sandwiches or fish and chip.  As the family became better off we started to go to hotels.   When I was nine we went to Guernsey which involved my first ever flight.  That was far better than the car and even more exciting than a train!

To the seaside: the journey

Some time during the school break we would go on holiday to the seaside.  It was never referred to as the coast, always the seaside.  I remember holidays in Sidmouth, Swanage, Whitby, Bridlington, Cromer.  When I was about eight we went to Cornwall, a journey so long that we took two days in the car.  

The roads were far less busy those days.  Some friends would go on holiday by train and how I envied them!  That seemed much more exciting than the car.  

My parents also suffered in the car, probably even more than we did.  The cry "Are we nearly there?" would start within minutes and continue all day.  There were, of course, no entertainments other than those we made for ourselves.  "Green grow the rushes, O" anyone?

I couldn't read in the car without feeling sick so that was banned.  We would look out of the windows to find a black cow or a green gate.  Red Lion and White Hart pubs were sought and points awarded.  No prizes, just the honour of winning.

Our family had a small stove which ran on methylated spirits so we would find somewhere to stop and fry sausages to be eaten in buns. This was to remind Father of his days in the Boy Scouts.   They were a real treat.  The sandwiches which Mother used to take sometimes were very boring in comparison and the stove and sausages had to come out at least once every holiday. Very occasionally we would buy food en route.  Here I am wearing one such purchase to the amusement of my Mother and sister. 

From Bach to Whitacre

 via Mendelssohn, Faure, Saint-Saens and Rogers and Hammerstein!

 

The audience waits

The C of E has some wonderful buildings but they are seriously underused.  Many have just one service a month - and some even less.  The buildings are much loved by their communities and especially by their congregations, but keeping them open, in use and in good repair, is a challenge, to say the least.

Pi

Pimms await

St Peter's Church serves a population of about fifty at Normanby but they get about twenty to twenty five people at their monthly Communion service.  Some of those worship only at Normanby but most travel to whichever village has a service that day.

soloists

So, yesterday, Claxby Community Choir gave a concert at Normanby.  Claxby is less than a mile away.  The two villages share a village hall but each has its own church.  

The concert was wonderful.  It was just over an hour and we heard music ranging from Bach's composition of 1732 to one of Eric Whitacre's compositions for his virtual choir during the pandemic.  We had four soloists, including a cellist and incredible verve from the conductor and her husband who was also the accompanist.  I was seated in a not-very-convenient part of church so my pictures aren't great - sorry about that.  

And it was followed by Pimm's and strawberries.  Pretty good Sunday afternoon!