Except that this year I booked my place, paid for it, and then was ill that day. There isn't a loo in that church so I just couldn't go.
But the organiser sent the wreath which the demonstrator had made. How kind is that!!!
Except that this year I booked my place, paid for it, and then was ill that day. There isn't a loo in that church so I just couldn't go.
But the organiser sent the wreath which the demonstrator had made. How kind is that!!!
Almighty God,
Give us grace that we may cast away the works of darkness,
and put upon us the armour of light,
now in the time of this mortal life,
in which thy Son Jesus Christ came to visit us in great humility;
that in the last day, when he shall come again in his glorious Majesty to judge both the quick and the dead,
we may rise to the life immortal;
through him who liveth and reigneth with thee and the Holy Spirit, now and ever.
Another thing I remember as a child is being taken on seemingly innumerable visits to people I didn't really know but who were known to my parents as people who would have a lonely Christmas. It's a custom I still maintain as do many others.
And I've just had a visit from Jack, not to sort my garden but to exchange presents. Jack, thank you for all you do. I hope you (and all my readers) have a blessed Christmas and a peaceful 2026.
When it comes to Christmas words I found seeking words beginning with U to be an Unpropitious aim. Urged on be my determination to give no-one chance to take Umbrage at my failure to post a full advent calendar, I tried to Use my brain. It is an Uneasy exercise.
Unity would be ideal, with all people being Unified for the common good. Ultimately. Unwrapping Unity from the parcels Under my tree would be wonderful. It would truly make this Christmas Unique.
(Sorry, don't know what the posh coves are doing today as Holly Dog needs me for day care.)
So, onward they go. They're not sure where they are going but they are going.
The tree looks suspiciously like a coloured version of the tree I made last month, courtesy of Holly Dog
Sprouts aren't among my favourites but Christmas dinner wouldn't be the same without them. When I was a little girl they were straight from the garden: these days they are Christmas loss-leaders in every supermarket. I was going to order just six loose sprouts but that would cost more than a 500g net so I've ordered the net and found a recipe for sprout soup.
The posh chaps are huddled around a campfire doing a meal plan for their travels. They sorted a route (sort of) but none of them is much good at map reading so they might just follow a star. They've decided to include sprouts as the camels quite like them as an occasional treat. They wanted chocolate but I'm not letting them have any. I remove the chocolate from the cupboard each morning and dispose of it Carefully. That's my job as a responsible adult.
Sorry this is so late in the day. I've had problems with uploading photographs.
Time for some crummy cracker jokes.
Why did Rudolph
get a bad grade in school? He went down in history.
What did Santa say when he and Mrs Claus gazed up into the sky? It looks like rain, dear!
(Answers below.)
I was rather worried about them yesterday as all three of them are rather portly gentlemen and chocolate can't be good for them so I confiscated it. I allowed the carrot to stay.
Today they are consulting a map. It won't get them far but I'm not sure if they could charge their SatNav on a camel's back.
1.B) Germany, 2C) 364, 3C) Eggnog, 4B) Charles Dickens, 5C) Turkey, 6B) Jingle Bells
For several years I was in a Santa Sack Swap which was organised on line. There are blogs which I first read while getting ready for a swap and which I still read today. The participants were all crafters, usually sewers, and I got some lovely hand made things.
One year I was chatting to a friend and she thought it a lovely idea so I now have a swap with her. The rules are that things must be mostly home made, but re-gifting and used things are OK with the odd low-cost bought item (OK, I mean chocolate!) being allowed as well. We have a stocking and a sack which we swap each year. There is a distinct possibility that C may read this so no piccies!
Today's news about the posh gents is confusing me. Another one has arrived and they're having a meeting around a bar of chocolate while the animals are meeting at one end of a carrot. Are these presents they are planning for someone? It all seems a bit odd to me. I hope time will tell.
But it’s not
like that for everyone. Many will rely
on foodbanks and other charities for Christmas dinner, and many will be worried
about paying for the fuel to cook it. Tiny Tim is still around. Special
shelters for homeless people will be opened and doubtless will be very well
used.
When Christmas
is over there will still be great need and aching poverty. Many will be malnourished or cold or
frightened.
Over the next
few days Eric Milner-White’s Bidding will be used at many services. We are called to worship but reminded that “because this
of all things would rejoice his heart, let us at this time remember in his name
the poor and the helpless, the cold, the hungry, and the oppressed; the sick
and them that mourn; the lonely and the unloved; the aged and the little
children”.
Remembering is
not enough. Generous offerings of our
money, our resources, our time and our prayers are called for.
Odd things are happening in my sitting room.
It started with someone deciding to build a stable. I don't remember being asked to comment on the planning proposal. It just appeared.
But what is happening here? All this week people and animals who look far too posh to live in stables have appeared. We have two upper class gents, two camels and two horses. The gents are trying to look busy but three of the animals are having none of it and are having a sit down. The angel looks rather bemused.
What can it all mean? I'll let you know when I know myself.
I think memories are one of the most important parts of Christmas!
I have memories of being a little girl and being taken to see Father Christmas and then he came to visit me while I slept.
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| My nephew in disguise. He's now 53. |
Memories of my teens and twenties with parties. And Christmas in Nigeria when my Christmas dinner walked into my flat for its last jaunt on its own two feet!
Memories of my nephew having Christmas with us and delighting in his excitement.
Memories of going home from work in my early working life on Christmas Eve knowing I had a run of two to four days off. That was brilliant.
Memories of doing six services between lunchtime Christmas Eve and lunchtime Christmas Day and then cooking Christmas lunch for twelve. Then leaving everyone else to do the washing up while I went for a snooze.
Memories of board games and other silly games before making sure all eleven of my guests had everything they needed for the night. And then cooking bacon butties for twelve on Boxing Day.
And now I have quiet Christmases reflecting on previous years and the love I have received from God throughout my life and especially in the last year.
Love shines on despite tangled lights, overcooked sprouts or dreadful jokes from crackers.
Love is hidden in wonky gifts made by children, jumpers lovingly knitted by grans, and hours spent by dads assembling easy-to-put-together toys.
Love sustains us through traffic jams or train cancellations as we struggle to join our loved ones.
Love is in community events, making sure people who are elderly and infirm can get to church or Christmas concerts.
Love is in increased donations to food banks and charities.
Love is served up with the turkey and Christmas pud eaten at home or taken to a housebound person.
And love is available to every one of us, wherever we are.
May you know love this Christmastide and always.
For non Brits or those not living in Commonwealth countries (I think it is broadcast overseas, maybe you could comment) The King's Speech is a Christmas Day event when the monarch reflects on the past year and often on the Christmas gospel.
It was originally just on the radio but since 1957 it has also been on TV. It's pre-recorded. When I was a child I seem to remember that the Queen sat behind a desk to speak to us, but the speech has gradually become less formal. These days it usually includes video of royal events during the year.
Back in 1932 the script was written by Rudyard Kipling but King Charles writes his own Christmas speech. Last year he reflected on the 80th Anniversary celebrations of D Day and on war in our own times and he spoke of Christ entering the darkness of the world. He went on to speak of the care and support he had received while being treated for cancer. He reminded us of the communities who were determined that civil disorder and destruction should not prevail against justice, care and concern and so got out brushes and shovels and cleared the mess. There was footage of him being surrounded by a group hug and of Prince William wearing a pinny and helping to serve meals in a community kitchen.
When I was a child we always watched as a family, including members of my extended family who had come for lunch. It was a fixed point in the afternoon. These days I'm more likely to watch a streamed version.
But watch it, I will!!!
(I've included a link to last year's speech which includes a British Sign Language interpreter.)
Many of my readers share my own faith but many more want to hear the Christmas story. When I was in the regular vicars I introduced a service of Christingle on Christmas Eve because parents wanted their children to hear the central story on Christmas Eve and they wanted to hear it in church, from the vicar and not just from the telly. I know it was a high point of Christmas for many parishioners to the extent that I had to do the same service twice every Christmas Eve so that everyone could get in. If I'd stayed longer I think we might have had three sittings!
I know that commercial tat screams louder than Christian truth but the excitement around Christmas means that most people do hear the spiritual message, and many who do not come to church regularly, come at this time. Few people can tell me the story of the Ascension Pentecost or the Resurrection as confidently as they can tell the Christmas story. If they don't know the Nativity story it's highly unlikely they know the others!
And we all love the magic. Even the most cynical adult feels a little sadness when a child no longer believes in Santa Claus.
We adults use our imaginations to appreciate truth. As the Service of Nine Lessons and Carols puts, it, "Beloved in Christ, be it this Christmastide our care and delight to hear again the message of the angels, and in heart and mind to go even unto Bethlehem and see this thing which is come to pass, and the Babe lying in a manger."
The advent wreath has four candles and in many traditions they represent Hope, Peace, Joy and Love.
Today's candle, peace invites us to slow down and make room for Christ's peace to enter us and show in our words and actions.
Next week's candle, joy, won't mean loudness either. It's about God stepping into our imperfect world, and about seeing him in kindness offered, in moments of peace. Joy strengthens our hearts as we journey towards Christmas.
The final candle, the fourth Sunday in Advent, speaks of love. God draws near us in quiet ways, for love is never forced, never loud, never distant. Advent love is patient. It makes room. It listens.
May you know hope, peace, joy and love this Advent.
And this Dopey one to hang on my tree.
This seems a good opportunity to check on the stable which has appeared in my sitting room.
With three sheep, one horse, one donkey and one goat.But it's six chocolates lighter.
I love to use the NORAD Santa tracker on Christmas Eve and have done so for many years. It reminds me just how far Santa travels, how many people he visits.
Click on the link and it will take you to the Advent countdown and Santa tracker. Norad (The North American Aerospace Defense Command) exists mainly to provide aerospace monitoring of aircraft, missiles and space vehicles so tracking Santa is well within its remit. Santa's mission is, of course, considered not to be hostile and Norad will offer any necessary assistance should he find himself in difficulties. They have been tracking Santa every year since 1955 so their archive of information is extensive. By Christmas Eve the team will be on full alert and minute by minute reporting of Santa's journey will be available. In the meantime games, music, movies etc are available. Do visit!
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| Elf filling a stocking to help Santa |
Don't tell any local children but I am a supply elf. It's true. The last couple of years Santa has been head scratching a bit over just how many elves he needs so he has recruited me to help with a few knitted gifts. Last year he asked me to make scarves, this year it's hats. I wish he'd put in his order a little earlier as I've got three hats to make: only two are knitted and none is made up!
Better get back to work.
When I was a little girl we lived in quite a large house with a staircase which turned twice so the Christmas tree stood in the stairwell and even little people could reach through and put decoration on the upper branches.
First to go on were the fairy lights. Every summer the lights would lose their plug as it was needed for something else so at Christmas another lightly used electrical appliance would lose its plug. Even when that went on, the lights never worked first time and Daddy had to check every bulb before the set could be put on the tree. Inevitably they needed another sort-out once they'd been put in place.
And then the fairy herself could go on the tree. As the youngest I was always allowed to do this. She was an incredibly tatty fairy, probably a pre-war jobby, but for me she was magic. Then tinsel, saved every year until it was nearly bald. The baubles in those far off days were always blown glass, so pretty but so fragile. Finally, lametta and maybe some cotton wool for the gaps.
The other decorations are not so clear in my memory. Mummy always fetched in lots of greenery, some of which was sprayed gold or silver. She had some logs of wood which her brother had drilled to form candle holders and he'd made smaller holes so sprigs of holly could be added and arranged.
The decorations never went up before the twentieth of the month, except for cards which were pinned to vertical streamers attached to the picture rail around each room. My parents received a lot of cards and leaving them so late would have made for a long and tedious job.
Memories of a secure and loving childhood.
There’s
something timeless about the soft glow of a candle. What is it about a simple flame that feels so
essential to Christmas?
A few days before
Christmas it will be the winter solstice, the shortest day and the longest
night here in the northern hemisphere.
Light symbolises triumph over darkness, hope replacing despair. Even the smallest light can change the
atmosphere around it. So candles remind
us of that tiny baby
On Sunday the first candle of the Advent wreath was lit in church. Each Sunday leading to Christmas, another will be lit. The ritual slows us down, if only for a moment, encouraging us to reflect while we rush through December’s to-do lists. Candles do something that lurid Christmas lights can’t: they create ambiance.
There is
something wonderful in a candle: it offers a moment of stillness. In a
season known for its hustle, a lit candle slows the pace.
This Christmas,
may the soft light of candles calm and brighten your home and your spirit.
Advent Sunday is anywhere from November 27 to December 3, depending on which day Christmas falls that year.
Commercial advent starts today with the first chocolate being consumed from many a calendar. I put my stable out yesterday (Advent Sunday) and today the first figure has appeared. I won't be showing the stable every day but will give updates a couple of times each week. And we just might follow the Magi on their journey.So my Blogmas is sorted: an Advent alphabet and the goings on in the stable. I will think about food, charities, socialising, and anything else which occurs to me. I've actually worked out in advance the theme of all my Blogmas alphabet posts.
So, here's the first view this year of my Advent stable. Nothing strange or startling. Just one sheep.
And being a big kid, I put a chocolate in each cupboard as well. Happy Advent to one and all!
I've brought my Advent stable into the house ready for tomorrow. No figures out yet, though. It's empty, a space where a wonderful story will emerge.
I'm the sort of person who starts Christmas preparation as soon as possible after Christmas because I want to let Advent be Advent: a time of spiritual preparation. The Christmas tree won't go up for a couple of weeks yet. Most presents are made and wrapped, cards are ready to be posted. Most of the seasonal food is in the freezer. The music is more, "O come, O come Emmanuel" than "Hark, the herald angels sing".
So this Advent Sunday is the quiet day before the rest of the world realises that Advent has begun. It's a day of faith and waiting on God.
I've been getting lots of lovely food made and frozen, some for Christmas and some just for those days when i feel rubbish and can't be bothered.
I went swimming just once. There must be at least three of us, and health and other commitments have got in the way.
I went to a craft session making iris folded cards. And another making a pottery tree (not yet painted).
I was treated to a couple of meals to celebrate my birthday (which was in October). And I've cooked a couple of meals for friends.
I had a couple of days away meeting friends.
I've done a lot of decluttering and have found a willing recipient for some of my fabric stash. I have also been quite good at maulifuffing.
I made my annual visit to Donna Nook and checked on the seals. They are still wonderful.
And amongst all that I have plodded on with Christmas preparations, met with friends on line, on the phone and face-to-face and stayed happy.
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| a small section of the beach |
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| pups investigating each other |
They have white fur when they are born although initially it is yellow with amniotic fluid. The mother loses up to half her bodyweight feeding her pup so they never have twins.
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| Pup feeding from mum. |
And there's a bacon butty and soup wagon to create a perfect end to a freezing cold visit!
This year I have sent fifteen scarves to a charity which distributes them to people in need. Each is about 23 centimetres wide, two metres of knitting long, plus about 25 centimetres of fringing. They are tubes knitted on a circular needle so they are double thickness.
I'm a member of a knitting group which send twiddle muffs to dementia patients, blankets for older people, teddy bears to the emergency services. We sometimes knit things to sell to buy thermal socks and gloves for homeless people.
I really enjoy this project. I hope the recipients enjoy its output.
G (Holly Dog's human) and I both enjoy roast lamb so sometimes I invite her to come for Sunday lunch. I buy small pieces of lamb loin which we have with a variety of veggies. G brings a bottle of wine and we have a glorious meal together. G hates cooking so I know these mini feasts are a joy for her too.
I am going to a huge family meal on Wednesday when about fifteen of us will sit down together and it will be a joyful, noisy occasion.
But there is something very special about cooking for someone else.
And having leftovers next day!
(I know it's not Advent yet, but I won't be posting poems during Advent. )
My latest joy is AI. It collates all sorts of information. I've just asked it about 22nd November in history.
Did you know that on this date in 498AD St. Symmachus became pope? Neither did I and I shall forget very quickly.
It is said that everyone can remember what they were doing on this date in 1963 as that was the date President Kennedy was assassinated. I am an exception to that rule as I have no idea.
I can remember a little more about 22nd November 1990 as that was the date that Margaret Thatcher resigned as Prime Minister. I think many of us had thought her tenure would never end.
And on this day in 2005 Angela Merkel became Chancellor of Germany.
Makes my plans for 22nd November 2025 look very mundane. I can feel more rabbit hole wanderings coming on.
And I love looking at it. Just looking at it. I don't want to go out in it.
I can look at it from my cosy house. I'm well dressed. I have eaten a hot breakfast. Lunch will be cooked and I have vast quantities of soup ready in my freezer.
I've got a huge credit on my energy account so putting the heating on doesn't worry me. My hibernaculum is cosy.
I shall spend the afternoon getting a batch of scarves fringed and ready to go for the benefit of others not so lucky.
Snow seemed a lovely surprise for me. It isn't so for others.
(I wrote this post yesterday but my problems with Blogger continue.)