18 February 2026

COWS

 No, not that sort of cows! Companions On the Wolds, if you please.  


This group has been running for several years and started as a social group for widows.    Although I am not a widow, I tag along as a chaplain.  Not much pastoring is needed from me as these lovely ladies take the newly bereaved under their wings and do mutual caring, but still, I think I am useful to have around.  

They meet monthly.  A meal is often part of the programme but sometimes they do crafts or go on visits.  Pottery painting and a garden visit are on the agenda in the next few months but today we just went to the local golf club for lunch.  

There's a Knit and Natter group as an off shoot as well.  The K & N group also includes quite a few ladies who aren't widows.  I don't often go to their meetings but I do knit for them.  They send items to various charities.  My particular interest is the Salvation Army in their work with homeless people.  I knit scarves for them, bu others knit blankets, teddies, and anything else we are asked for.

8 comments:

  1. Such groups are truly a Godsend

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    1. They are. And much better than doing pastoral visits, from the minister's point of view.

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  2. That sounds like a lovely group to be a part of.

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    1. They are delightful ladies. Most of the time they run their own activities.

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  3. Sounds like a wonderful community of ladies. There is a knitting group at the local library that I joined several years ago, but, there was a language barrier as everyone in the group spoke Spanish and I didn't, so, while they tried to make me feel welcomed, I didn't find the social interaction I was looking for and dropped out.

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    1. That's a pity. It's nice to chat while your fingers are moving rhythmically.

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  4. Oh I wish we had groups like that here in my small city. I know there are such groups in the larger cities.

    God bless.

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    1. I don't think it was hard to set up - we clergy always have widows whom we would like to follow up but a social group is far better. The ladies now run it for themselves. They come from quite a few villages.

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